Female Sexual Empowerment

Chakras and Feminine Empowerment 

Note: Dates for this workshop series will be posted in the New Year. Let me know if you are interested. 

Our Heart Chakra and Self-love. Embrace yourself with feminine energetic, self-nurturing practices to work with your feminine cycles and female life’s transitions.

Our Personal Power Chakra. Learn to set healthy boundaries with the healing power of breath and “Core Ecstatic Movement”.

Our First and Second Chakras. Learn to awaken and ground your Shakti or sacred sexual power. Prevent or alleviate PMS, menopausal symptoms and PFD, pelvic floor disorders with Maryse’s Pelvic Power Program & yoga asanas.

Maryse Coté is an international Tantric Yoga teacher and healer, a Tantric Holistic Massage tm trainer who has developed her own synthesis of Tantric and Taoist traditions during 35 years teaching Sacred Feminine Empowerment in the Spirit of Sisterhood. She is currently completing her upcoming book: Be the Heroine of your own Myth, Living Sexuality from the inside out.

Announcing:   Private Woman’s Retreat 

At my home studio by the sea, in Sooke, BC















A private retreat is a perfect time for:

  • Relaxing and being pampered.
  • Cultivating renewal of energy, creativity and deeper wisdom.
  • Taking care of ourselves through significant life’s transition.
  • Healing and maintaining physical, emotional and spiritual health.
  • Challenging the prevalent myths surrounding menopause and the cliché of the asexual aging woman.
  • Seeking life’s direction and spiritual guidance.

Private Retreats and Sessions for Individual Women or Same Sex Couples 

These retreats can unfold over one day, a weekend or a whole week.

The retreat concept can apply to anyone needing to take time out whether alone or with a partner. It can be a perfect time for self-exploration and for being pampered. It can be a wonderful gift to yourself: A Female Tantric Orgasmic Journey.

For some women the focus of the retreat is more on healing. Maryse will create a safe space for you to go deeper into your healing process while helping to integrate some of the deep transformational work which can take place during the sessions.

After the initial conversation on the phone, I will suggest a particular program according to your specific needs, including a combination of the different aspects of my work as I describe below.
We work in sessions of 3-4 hours with sufficient time between the sessions to enjoy nature walks, for meditation by the ocean, resting and giving yourself self-nurturing time.


Our work together will take place at my home studio in picturesque Sooke, BC, Canada, or else in tropical settings such as Mexico or Bali, generally between December and March. For retreats in Sooke, accomodation is included.  As for tropical retreats since everyone has different requirements when it comes to places to stay I recommend that you go online and find a hotel or a B&B which best suit your preferences. Sooke is located on Vancouver Island off the west coast of British Columbia. It is world- renowned for its magnificent natural surroundings. As is Bali, “ the island of the Gods”.

The following private retreat is still currently offered in Sooke during 2019-2020. Check for available dates.

Private Retreats and Private Sessions can include some of the following:
Sex & Intimacy Coaching and Tantric Holistic Healing Massage
Tantric Holistic Massage
Yoni Healing Ritual and G Spot Massage
Female Multi-Orgasmic Lover Training including The Full Body Orgasm Practice

Events Highlights

All packages include a Therapeutic Massage for Deep Relaxation and Overall Wellbeing.

The one and a half hour Therapeutic massage session may be booked separately for $135, independent of an overnight stay.

Experience the Healing Power of Touch to:

  • ~ Enhance your physical and emotional wellbeing.
  • ~ Promote deep relaxation
  • ~ Reduce stress and anxiety
  • ~ Improve sleep
  • ~ Awaken your senses and restore your natural vibrancy
  • Note: The Therapeutic Massage may be substituted with other items on the menu a la carte below, on Day 2 and successive days of the retreat.

Package One- RECLINE & RELAX

Recline, relax and enjoy a spectacular view over the Whiffin Spit located 5-minute-walk from the retreat.  $240

This basic package includes:

  • Cozy bedroom with king size bed & shared bathroom
  • One-and-half hour Therapeutic Massage
  • Aromatheray Soak
  • Full Kitchen access
  • Wifi
  • Seasonal Gardening experience
  • Walk by the ocean*
  • Free parking
  • Transportation from and back to Sooke village.

*  Walk on the Whiffin Spit Beach. A leisurely 30-minute walk takes you to the point where you can enjoy the scenery and watch the mesmerizing breakwater. Wooden benches situated along the path offer the perfect opportunity to sit back and take in the natural beauty of the Vancouver Island south-west coastline. – Swim Guide.

For nature lovers, other local attractions are also available.

Not included: Food, TV.


From $330

This package includes the same as Package One plus one hour additional session per day. Count $90 per hour for additional sessions ($100 per hour for Yoni Healing Massage).

Let’s create your own personalized retreat. What are you seeking?

“What you seek is seeking you,” said the great mystic Rumi.

This option is an a-la-carte menu based on the few questions I ask you to answer through our initital phone conversation during which I will answer any questions or concerns you may have and make some recommendations. You may then book one or as many sessions per day and as many days as you desire. It is up to you. It depends on what you want to accomplish, what you are ready to give yourself and of course, your budget. I encourage you to define your intention and to envision your perfect retreat.

Do you need support for a particular life’s transition, take time to grieve, or do some personal growth and emotional healing? Or else do you desire an introduction to meditation, breathing & movement ( Core Ecstatic Movement tm). Are you ready to honor and reward yourself with a special celebration, a personally designed ritual or a healing session? Would you like to take your intimacy, into-me-I-see, to the next level with the Tantric Feminine Treasures? This one-on-one retreat is a perfect setting for it all.

In addition to either of the above options, this package is designed based on your specific needs and desires and may include some of the following:

  • Therapeutic massage
  • Chakra Healing Work
  • Core Ecstatic Movement tm combining breath work & movement
  • Ritual & Ceremony
  • Tantric Holistic Counseling including Qi Gong (Chi Kong)’s Feminine Treasures, a self-massage series for energy stimulation and cultivation.


Let the Wild and Wise Woman, Ageless-Sex-Babe Emerge!

From $420

This package includes the same as Package 1 plus two additional sessions per day. Count $90 per hour for additional sessions.

An Exceptional Woman’s Private Retreat designed to challenge the prevalent myths surrounding menopause. A sacred space to:

  •  Relax, Nurture yourself and Rejuvenate
  •  Awaken your Shakti or Sacred Erotic Power
  •  Cultivate a strong current of Life Force as the Best Anti-Aging and Anti-Stress Secret
  •  Reframe Menopausal Transition and Unleash its Creativity
  • Heal your Body and your Heart
  • Increase and Intensify your Orgasms
  • Regulate your Menstrual cycle while Preventing or
  • Alleviating PMS and Menopausal Symptoms
  • Maintain your Physical, Emotional and Spiritual Health

Celebrate Women’s Sexual Empowerment

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, menopause was known as Second Spring, acknowledging a renewal of energy, creativity, and deeper wisdom. In many traditional cultures, women do not experience the “secondary” menopausal symptoms which eighty percent of us in our Western culture endure. What is their secret? How can we avail ourselves of it? Or better yet how do we find our own secrets of rejuvenation, longevity, sexual satisfaction and feminine wisdom?

Since menopause occurs at the median age of fifty-two, there are still thirty to forty years ahead of us which may potentially become our most fulfilling and sexually satisfying years. Science has irrefutably demonstrated that our thoughts affect every cell and hormonal secretion within our body, therefore our perception of being menopausal has a crucial effect upon our sexual functioning.

Tantric Yoga teaches how to circulate kundalini (sacred sexual energy) throughout our chakras (energy centers) employing techniques of breath, movement, meditation, visualization, and sound. Tantric Yoga aims at the union of the yin (feminine) and the yang (masculine) within us. Kundalini is our life force which seeks to be released in a healthy and balanced way. When it is not, imbalances cause blockages and dysfunctions in our body and mind. Unresolved issues centered in our first and second chakras often manifest as PMS, menstrual cramps, pelvic floor disorders which may include difficulty in experiencing full sexual cycles or orgasms, along with secondary menopausal symptoms such as hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, and depression. Blockages in these chakras often mean rejection of our feminine self. Understanding the beliefs which are at the cause of these female imbalances will help transform them, allowing us to re-establish health and harmony in our lives.


Once you have selected your special package we can determine the time of the day for your therapeutic massage as well as schedule additional sessions. As for the rest of the day, it is up to you to enjoy this natural sanctuary as you feel so inclined.

When you stay here as my guest you also share my living room with a spectacular view over the water. You may recline and relax and let yourself soak in this most serene atmosphere. Read a book, write in your journal, go for a walk on the Whiffin Spit nearby or casually prepare your meal in the fully equipped kitchen. During the warm seasons, you may take your coffee outside and sit on “the throne”, watching the boats and perhaps, if you are lucky, spot an eagle. They make a nest nearby each year.


Couple’s Private Tantric retreat

Experience the Yoga of Intimacy for couples

Sooke, British Columbia 




This private Couple’s retreat is designed to provide a safe and supportive environment where you will learn to:

  • Enhance your communication skills and deepen intimacy
  • Heal the connection between love and sex
  • Rekindle the passion in your relationship
  • Integrate ancient sexual practices to build up stamina, balance health and enhance vitality into everyday life
  • Celebrate the gift of Sacred Sexuality

Click COUPLES on the menu for more details on the content of the sessions. Email Maryse at yogini1008@gmail.com and we can schedule a Skype/Zoom session to discuss your specific needs and special considerations.

Maryse showed great intuitiveness genuine care, knowledge and wisdom. Our passion was greatly rekindled.Couple from California.


meet-maryseMaryse Coté was initiated to Tantra in India in 1980. She has since developed her own unique synthesis of Tantric and Taoist traditions with modern transformational processes. Maryse celebrates 25 years of Women’s Sacred Sexuality Work with her upcoming book on Empowering Female Sacred Sexuality.